Conflict vs. HIB | |
Conflict | HIB |
Involves people with similar degrees of power |
Involves an imbalance of power |
Involves a mutual disagreement or difference in interests or goals. Includes arguments and fights. |
One or more students are victims of one or more people’s aggression, needs, or interests. |
It is reciprocal; both parties participate in the conflict |
It is one-sided; one party instigates |
Both parties are responsible for wrongdoing |
Bully is responsible for wrongdoing |
A normal part of growing up and of life. The intent is not to hurt. |
The intent is to physically or emotionally hurt someone. |
Can be fairly resolved by compromise or negotiation |
A fair resolution involves a change in the behavior of the bully; the target has no concession to make |